THE POEM CALLED LIFE

Am sorry its almost going to be a year. I just fished this out from the innumerable incomplete blogs I hold .... We are a batch of 5 school friends who don’t miss a chance to meet . Our last meet proves how much fun we have when we are together. This time we decided our husbands should meet too. And then it all began…. Innumerable calls to decide on the who,when where what how … Who: P with husband N and twins V and N; A with husband Pr and kid Ak; U with husband B and kid N and G ( that’s me J ..) with husband M and kid Achu…C couldn’t make it since she has a school to run When : May 1 st …since it was a holiday …we had a whole weekend before us Where : Pondicherry …because our men wanted long drives What : We were to have fun, enjoy the sea at a resort and visit places in pondy How: 2 cars would be enough …M and N would drive….later Pr decided to drive too…so it was 3 cars so that P and family could comfortably come in a car The Plan : To leave city early Saturday morning, h...

Acha not feeling well after his trip to Kerala. He came back with a bad allergy and is feeling all drained out. Amma has a bad cold and coff but still has the routine work of feeding 5 mouths and setting their day for them MIL is sick and we don't know what is wrong. Hoping a few tests get things clear and she can get the right medication. Achu has a coff and cold . Maybe from Amma. He is enjoying his sick leave.  At work things are pretty hectic with a few deadlines cleared at the moment. Our flat needs to be cleaned up and a million chores pending  M and I shuttle between check ups, school, office and homes A sort of unrest prevails all around Its really peaceful to get into bed and dream through the night....in a different world M and I still find small reasons to smile about ...but all of a sudden things seem not quite good God's presence is felt ... Prayers Prayers Prayers Ps. There are so many decisions to take during the next few weeks....Have our fingers cr...

The first anniversary 7 years back was spent at mayajaal. The movie we could watch was " Devathaiyey Kandein" starring Danush and Sreedevi. We didn't have a choice. So on the 7th anniversary we decided to watch a movie starring Danush.This time it was "Aadukalam." How it all started.... The morning began with a few wishes from relatives,cousins and friends frantically wanting to know what we were going to do and what M gave me and I gave him.The calls and messages came ONLY to me because M seemed oblivious until breakfast when I  had to mention the difference between yesterday and today. GOD! Me :I received a lot of condolences today.... M: Huh! for what    Me: For having tied the knot M: Oh! Today-a And then we left to office.... 11.30 am - normal 12.30 pm - normal 1.30pm - very normal 2.00pm - hungry so called M and Acha to leave for lunch Driver left early since he had some work and so M and I drove back home Me: Hey shall we go for a movi...

When we have guests/relatives at home its normal work plus Paying the extra bills - Acha's work Organising their appoinments around the city -Acha's work Have to plan the cooking /ordering for the day - Amma's work Set up the rooms - Amma's work Clean , clean and clean - Amma's work So do I enjoy having guests/relatives...sure because amma does all the hard work and I end up taking short breaks from work - The size depends on the workload and funload visiting malls..old and new - the only chance I get to explore them catching a movie or two - the planning happens before they land here. Am a total movie freak...and I love the intervals too chit chatting,gossiping,solving world problem from the couch - My vocal chords never give up or in visiting other relatives known and unknown - refreshments for the mind and tummy shopping with and for them - love it having extra servings of junk food - love it to the power infinity... Strenuous? Absolutely :) The y...

be a better human be a better daughter be a better mother be a better friend be a better worker be a better student be a better wife In that order...what needs most effort to the one that needs least...'cause am the 'bestest' wife M can have ;b ( Modesty RIP!) Ps. Not getting to the specifics am I?....I will I will....

Happy New year fellow bloggers A new year is something we all look forward to To do new things To change routines To grow 2010 - sped past - brought in trouble as Acha fell ill - gave lovely moments with friends and family - did a course on the professional front - made achu boy begin to think like a man with the needed doses of being the lovable child he is - M and I had our share of tiffs and cuddles - Is over and am blessed with the people and things I love around me safe and tight 2011 - I wish to be as happy it started of to be - Health - Happiness - Peace - Less of frowns...No frowns are impossible - More of smiles PS. Specific targets for 2011 will be updated.

Last minute studying Last minute packing Last minute shopping Last minute filing Last minutes are the minutes that actual matter to me December will be done in another 15 days!!!!!! Then we have a New Year ... Quick .....No time to lose The things that I am doing Need to be done. PS. My mind speaks thus.....ever heard of year-end resolutions?